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NEW EPISODE: What are your Goals for Sex?

Posted on October 30, 2009 by | Leave a comment
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Dear Lady Brain,

Do men and women have different goals for sex? –Alex, San Francisco

Dear Alex,

We highly recommend a listen to our show on this topic!  But the best way to sum it up can be found in the following quote: “Women want a man with passionate sex on his mind and love and tenderness in his heart. She wants him to be into her, not just sexually, but emotionally as well.” Dr Fran Paver—Psychology Today blog . To paraphrase Lauren in the show, “Men just want a woman with passionate sex on her mind.”

And to find a summary of a GREAT study on what women want, take a look at this article in the Globe and Mail regarding a book called “The Sex Lives of Australian Women.” The book’s author, Joan Sauer says women just want (drum roll please) “better sex!” Guys–we love you, really!

-Steph and Lauren

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Sex tips for all you parents! (An interview with the “Mominatrix”)

Posted on October 23, 2009 by | Leave a comment

mominatrix_book_sm2We had the pleasure of interviewing the infamous sex columnist, author, and host of “Morning sex with the Mominatrix,” Kristen Chase, who brings eye-popping sex advice to droopy-eyed parents everywhere. (Caveat–we recorded this remotely and the sound quality is less than ideal–work with us people!) CLICK TO PLAY EPISODE.

We asked her  about her show, Morning Sex with the Mominatrix, as well as how she keeps the fire lit with her own husband. Turns out absence—and getting rid of the yoga pants–makes the wife more horny–how bout them apples?

She also gives us some great tips on how moms and dads can get out of the rut and get naughty.

-Steph and Lauren

PS Her new book can be pre-ordered (do it now before you get too tired or something!) and comes out in January, 2010. It gives moms everywhere permission to exchange their mommy jeans for something just a bit more, um . . . flattering. Good moms can be sexy mamas with just a little mominatrix training! It’s less about learning the latest and greatest blow job technique and more about figuring out how to make a sexual relationship work when the batteries from your vibrator are now powering your baby monitor and the last orgasm you had was when your baby slept four hours in a row.

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New Episode: A new way to measure for pleasure

Posted on October 7, 2009 by | Leave a comment

Do you measure up?

Do you measure up?

CLICK HERE TO PLAY THE EPISODE and learn what tiny distance may affect the way a woman orgasms.

Dear Lady Brain,

I just found an article that says the distance between your clitoris and your vagina can affect your ability to have orgasms. Is this true?

Dear Bill,

We read the article you sent us and think that while there may be some merit to this, since every woman is built differently and their ability to orgasm is different in different situations–but that there can be a TON of factors that are going to determine how well it works out in the end…We could not find anything that told us whether this experiment meant that based on a woman’s measurement, women can or cannot have a vaginal orgasm during intercourse, or a clitoral orgasm during intercourse.

SO it doesn’t let the guys off the hook! There’s lots of stuff you can do to work around this. Listen in for more on this topic!

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Too tired for sex?

Posted on September 9, 2009 by | Leave a comment

tiredLearn how to get back in the mood (if you even want to!)

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Men’s parts examined

Posted on August 19, 2009 by | Leave a comment
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It’s not just the ladies who might get saggy.

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And for more: Read “The lifecycle of a penis” from WebMD.

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Post-coital clean-up

Posted on August 13, 2009 by | Leave a comment

tissueTo do or not to do?
Whether it’s tissue, or towel, wetting down in the shower or just letting it flow, the choice is yours. But know what you’re getting into, and what it might mean to your partner.

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Sex, health and making a love list (8/8 KUSF, pt 2)

Posted on August 11, 2009 by | Leave a comment

hugging2According to a study published recently by WebMD, “the health benefits of sex extend way beyond the bedroom.” According to the study this includes headaches, hangovers and possibly heart health!  In this episode we share the compelling evidence for sex and your health, and  propose some futuristic alternatives.

Plus..we learned about making a “love list,” from one of our listeners–write down the 5 or 10 things you love about your partner and show it to them. It should make them happy and better yet–they may return the favor! Take a listen to hear how it works…

Click to play: Sex, health, and making a love list (KUSF, 8/8 pt 3)

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Help for the sex-starved wives

Posted on August 8, 2009 by | 2 Comments

book_small_grayWhile doing research on how much we make love vs how much we chase it, we came across this article on time.com.

In it, they review a book written by Michele Weiner Davis, called The Sex-Starved Wife. What to Do When He’s Lost Desire. It covers “the unique challenges for women when they’re the more highly sexed spouse.” I guess it’s not the kind of thing you’d read on the subway–but perhaps in a bar? Not.

The author also has a website.

We wonder if there will be a sequel for the sex-starved hubbies out there! (Perhaps it can be found in The Sex-Starved Marriage book Michele Weiner Davis has also written!).

Take our poll (scroll down) and let us know how the balance works for you.

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THIS WEEK: CLEANLINESS, LOVE, TEXTS AND TATTOOS

Posted on August 8, 2009 by | Leave a comment

Tune in at 3:30p this Saturday, 8/8 to KUSF 90.3 FM and kusf.org

If you miss us on the radio, this week’s fabulous topics will be posted throughout the week.

AND GUESS WHAT? If you sign up for our email list you will receive a PREVIEW episode each week!

1. Post-coital cleanup
To do or not to do?

2. Sex, health and making a love list
The compelling evidence for sex and your health

3. The accidental text
When you send it to the wrong person

4. Tattoos
Do they change how people view you?

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GUYS: In a relationship for at least 1 year? How frequently do you have sex with your partner?

Posted on August 7, 2009 by | Leave a comment

Take the poll! All answers are completely anonymous. LADIES–scroll down for your poll.

Now, guys, how often would you LIKE to have sex with your partner? LADIES, scroll down for your poll.

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