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Dear Lady Brain, I am a guy who likes to make sure that his woman is fulfilled during sex—so I tend to take care of her right up front. But I was wondering is that the right thing to do—do women enjoy sex after they’ve had an orgasm?

• Every woman is different but most concur that having an orgasm makes for more fulfilling sex. Ask your woman how it feels for her!
• The options for women seem to be: get one guaranteed up front while he’s totally dedicated to the cause, and then have sex after, OR gamble on getting one during, or convince him to give you one afterward…you have to direct traffic on this one ladies.
• Giving an orgasm is important! Joan Sauer, Author of ‘Sex Lives of Australian Women’ is quoted in the Globe and Mail, “when I asked (one respondent) how she had an orgasm, she said ‘Oh, I go into the bathroom and masturbate after we’ve had sex.’ It’s really sad. This is the funny thing, a lot of the women in the survey, including women who described stories like that, are doctors and lawyers and they’re supposedly liberated in their public lives. But in their private lives they’re still sort of back in the 1950s, which is bizarre.’
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